Happens when a bigger, older, stronger or more popular kid pushes around someone smaller, younger, weaker, or less popular. Bullying can also happen on the internet, through social media, or over text messaging when someone publishes/posts/sends harassing comments, rumors, or unwanted/embarrassing pictures.

Listen through the lens of a bystander
Could be connected to target or person doing high risk behavior
Focus on behaviors, not who is doing them

Personal, General, Relationship

1-800-273-8255

Someone who stands by and watches an event happen.

Abusive behavior one person in a relationship uses to control the other. IT can be physical, verbal, sexual, or emotional.

Potential behaviors that could cause harm to another person

Direct, Delegate, Distract

741741

Someone who responds to an event happening

Any type of sexual contact or behavior that occurs without the explicit consent of the recipient.

Believe them.
Say, “I’m sorry.”
Help find resources.
Ask, “How can I support you?”

606-528-5286

Someone who watches an event happening and does nothing

Creating Two Clear Norms
Power-based personal violence is not okay and will not be tolerated.
Everyone needs to do their part to help.

Shy, afraid of conflict, don't want to get involved, "not my problem".

1-800-656-4673

As Responsible, Less Responsible, Not Responsible

Green Dots that are done in the moment to stop red dots from occurring.

- Check in with the person being bullied
- Tell someone else to check in on the person
- Slam a locker

911

Help someone that is in need